No one has time for drama, especially not me!

Dear darling readers, it’s been a couple of weeks filled with crap and drama. The most annoying of which is Fixitguy’s family. His sister and father are such selfish, self-serving asshats that it literally defies my ability to process it. I became my brother-in-law’s guardian last year and Asshat father-in-law decided to fight me on it. On the grounds that I’m weird and different and I’m proud of it. Wow. He is ridiculous and I’m glad the judge had the good sense to shut him down.

Today it’s an entirely new drama. Because of IdiotLawyer’s advice my house is now in foreclosure and apparently a notice was in the paper. AFIL has nothing else to do but read the paper. I believe he’s one of their 25 subscribers. So he and SIL commiserate and SIL starts texting BonusDaughters1&2 to find out why I’m not taking care of Fixitguy’s business. They tell her it’s taken care of. Next thing I know she is texting another friend saying her dad is getting a lawyer to “take the house away”. I have no idea what he is thinking or how he thinks he can accomplish this. But I told SIL that both of them need to mind their own fucking business. She replies that it was in the paper and so it’s everyone’s business. I point out that she lives in New Mexico, so still not hers. I am just so exhausted of the take take take from this family. I am taking care of the brother/son that neither of them can be bothered with. AFIL calls FIL periodically to ask why there is no headstone on Fixitguy or his mother. I just feel like they should have called and asked if I needed help rather than commiserating with each other and stirring up shit. I mean, really. So now I just have this cartoon in my head of vultures in Christian suits banging each other over their asshat heads with bibles. AFIL is such a great Christian and knows the only true way to believe, but this is how he behaves toward his daughter in law who stepped in to help out with his insane child. Yep, dear readers, the insanity runs deep and hard in that family. It is enough to make me want to go live in a mildly furnished cave with cable and space for a craft business, so if you hear of anything, let me know.

Hypocrisy has never been on my list of things that I entertain easily and the hypocrisy that these two people represent makes me furious. The simple answer is that they do not have their own lives and must create drama in other people’s lives. It makes them feel important and accomplished. I normally just shake my head, but the stressors were great yesterday and my tolerance for them was non-existent. I am locked in an almost impossible situation and these two step right up as if on cue to add to the pile. The simple answer is for AFIL to write a check to help cover some of this stuff. But it’s WAY better to point out everyone’s fault in not taking care of these things and WAY easier than actually pretending he is a decent human being for five minutes. That is just too much to bear. I am glad that I have cut certain people out of my life since Fixitguy’s death.

Of course, our 15th anniversary would have been on Sunday the 5th. This fills me with overwhelming sadness. It is anniversary number 2. Which seems so crazy to me. Wee Geek and I were talking about missing him last night. It is just so odd to have this 6 foot 2 hole inside of me that only he can fill. I am forever asked about dating and my reply is always, “Boyfriend? God no. How do you take care of them? Do you have to feed them? Water them? Take them for walks? That sounds like way more responsibility than I am equipped to handle in my current state. Sorry. No.”

I am reading at a funeral today. My dear UFOconspiracybuddy asked me to read a poem at his mom’s funeral. So I’m off to do that today. Maybe some sort of clarity will magically jump into my head and make me feel more kindly toward the idiots in my life. I doubt it, but a girl can dream.

14 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Regina Newman
    Feb 03, 2017 @ 14:39:50

    OMG! Katey Jayne…..How Fucking Awful for you n Wee Geek…..Death sucks and it Always Brings Out The Nastiness and Narrowness in most people…..I’m teuly sorry that your house is in Foreclosure……I have no words other than I’m sorry…..truly from the bottom of my heart…… Regina


  2. wotsbooks
    Feb 03, 2017 @ 18:27:31

    Bloody Hell mate. That sounds really pants. 😕 people are capable of so much beauty, are capable of such honour and dignity, but what do most people become? Hats to be donned upon arses! Sorry for your recent experiences. Ned.


    • autiezombiegirl
      Feb 03, 2017 @ 18:42:08

      I know. It’s all around bonkers. Never met an entire family of walkers until I married into this bullshit.


      • wotsbooks
        Feb 03, 2017 @ 18:45:34

        I’m going to assume that by walkers you either mean the shuffling undead or wankers but something tells me you’d settle with either description

      • autiezombiegirl
        Feb 03, 2017 @ 18:48:44

        Yes wankers. Fucking auto correct.

      • autiezombiegirl
        Feb 03, 2017 @ 18:49:30

        I’m going to blame the American mobile phone system for that one.

      • wotsbooks
        Feb 03, 2017 @ 18:58:37

        Well it sounds like egos, self absorption and ignorance are dogging you in the form of these people. It’s not enough that you lost fixit guy without people failing to support you in the aftermath rather than giving you shit. If these people are NTs then I apologise on behalf of the rest of us. 😕 oh and yes, fucking auto correct!

  3. autiezombiegirl
    Feb 03, 2017 @ 19:01:44

    No one on Fixitguy’s side of the family is normal. And the are all selfish and self absorbed assholes. They only care about themselves. It’s very sad. I’m not losing out by cutting them off. I’m ahead in that game. Believe me.


  4. wotsbooks
    Feb 03, 2017 @ 20:03:43

    I’ve always seen people like clothes, if they don’t fit you any more or you haven’t tried them on for over 6 months, bin them.


  5. wotsbooks
    Feb 03, 2017 @ 20:04:20

    And no I don’t buy a new wardrobe every six months. 😊


  6. Angel
    Feb 04, 2017 @ 11:16:27

    I’m so sorry that the people that you are being forced to deal with label themselves as Christian. There are crazy people in any religion. Unfortunately you have the craziest of the crazy to contend with. Please know that a true follower of Jesus would NEVER treat you this way. PERIOD.


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